Where's the nanny?

That's all we're missing.  When me and my late sister were little we had a nanny, because mom and dad both worked full time.  So me and my sister saw our parents but never had much of a bond with them.  Then mom quit her job and the nanny went away as she became a stay-at-home mom.  But now, the tight bond I had with her is slowly fading.  She never spends time with me.  When it's just me and her at home she's usually angry, to a greater or lesser degree, and always busy.  It feels like her priorities are: 1) my dad, understandable  2) the dogs  3) her friends  4) her daughter, aka me.  She may not do this intentionally...but the fact is she does.  And it hurts.