I don't or won't

I have a lot of friends online.  A lot of them say they want to meet me.  The problem?  I refuse to drive hours to see them.  I hate driving, let alone by myself in unfamiliar surroundings.  I'm more likely to drive to see a lover.  But it's still situation dependent.  If they decide to come see me, that's different.  I'm fine if they do.  I guess it depends how much they want to meet me.  They're my friends, on or offline...or so I hope.